Opposites really do attract. We remember that from our teenybopper days when we used to spend time with our girlfriends talking about one and the same thing each day—boys and our love-hate relationships with them.
That’s right. We don’t always love boys. Sometimes, they actually annoy us. That’s only because they really don’t understand how girls think and how we act upon what we think. It seems that it works both ways. Girls don’t really know how it is to be a boy. Misunderstandings between the two always arise from that premise. Nonetheless, we should also see these differences on a more positive light. In fact, what gets us hooked to the opposite sex is the mystery of having to deal with someone you are not really able to completely comprehend.
It is really interesting how boy-girl relationships seem to work out for those who have been through the odds after a long period of time spent together. There are days when these relationships have turned sour but that only tell us the beauty of these relationships—they still stand the test of time.
In the long run, getting married would become the topic in the relationship and outside. People may go against or for the decisions you are making as a couple and yet you remain stronger day by day.
But what does all these got to do with pink abstract cufflinks? A long lasting relationship always begins in understanding the woman. We are not here to be gender biased. This opinion is based merely on the fact that men are very much understand in this world and we often fail to hear the woman’s take on things. Resolving personal matters that involve such petty things as “why is she taking so long preparing for a movie date?” or “why does she love jewelries such as that pink cufflinks she asked me to buy for her birthday?”
We are not saying that getting her another pair of designer cufflinks for her collection, if that’s what she wants, will resolve your relationship issues. It’s just that the best way to resolve any contradictions is to listen and to respond.
